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The Sensitivity Doctor

Dr. Amelia Kelley

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Ever been told you're too sensitive, too emotional, or just too much? Good. You're exactly who this podcast is for. On The Sensitivity Doctor Podcast, Dr. Amelia Kelley—trauma-informed therapist, author, and fellow Highly Sensitive Person—dives into what it really means to live, love, and lead with sensitivity in a world that often gets it wrong. From trauma healing and navigating ADHD to setting boundaries, decoding relationships, and reclaiming your voice—no question is too deep, and no pa ...
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Key Takeaways Fear is boring—it recycles the same script, keeping you stuck with the illusion that perfection will keep you safe. Perfectionism often hides in plain sight, rebranded as productivity or “being responsible,” but it’s still just fear in disguise. The achiever mindset can be a mask for deep wounds, often rooted in rejection, abandonment…
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Key Takeaways: Grief is not a linear process with tidy stages—it’s messy, lifelong, and uniquely personal. Our culture often fails to acknowledge non-death grief, such as breakups, divorce, and unfulfilled life paths. “Grief buckets” offer a helpful framework for grieving: solo time, movement, creativity, nature, and community. Rituals and communit…
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Key Takeaways: Healing begins with recognizing that all parts are good, even if not all behaviors are. Britt’s ALIGN acronym (Acknowledge, Listen, Investigate, Gratitude, Negotiate) offers a user-friendly model for navigating emotions and impulses. Your inner critic isn’t the enemy—it may just need retraining into a high-performance coach. Micro “y…
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Key Takeaways: What it means to live with both autism and ADHD (AuDHD) The hidden cost of masking and how it impacts the nervous system How to begin unmasking safely—in relationships, work, and daily life The difference between trauma responses and neurodivergent traits Why self-compassion is essential when navigating a late diagnosis The healing p…
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Key Takeaways Generational trauma often persists because families avoid talking about pain—but healing begins with honesty. “Toxic resilience” can look like high-functioning busyness while masking unprocessed trauma. Self-care is more than bubble baths—it’s about regulation, awareness, and creating space to feel. Breaking generational cycles doesn’…
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Key Takeaways: Cutting ties isn’t impulsive—it’s often the result of long-term patterns of abuse or dysfunction. “No contact” can take many forms and doesn’t look the same for everyone. Guilt, shame, and societal pressure often accompany estrangement and must be consciously unpacked. Grieving the idealized version of a parent is a necessary step to…
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Key takeaways: The seven spiritual questions that redefine success Why radical honesty is the foundation of self-trust Soul mapping: a tool to align with your core values How somatics and neuroscience support lasting change Empowering highly sensitive people to live outside the “shoulds” Links and resources: Dating with Dignity Podcast Follow Marni…
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Key Takeaways: Surviving trauma often involves not just the event itself, but the layers of grief, uncertainty, and secondary trauma that follow. Healing is not linear and requires patience, self-compassion, and often a willingness to fall apart before rebuilding. Trauma can change a person at their core, but through acceptance and intentional heal…
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Key Takeaways: Fertility challenges are often a signal, not a sentence. They can be a gift pointing toward deeper healing and health. Emotional and ancestral trauma, stress, and lifestyle imbalances all play a role in fertility health. There’s no "one fix"; it’s about uncovering and tuning multiple levers, nutrition, sleep, environmental toxins, em…
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Key takeaways: The four root causes of disease: toxicity, malnutrition, stagnation, and trauma. Highly sensitive individuals may have heightened reactions to histamine-rich foods and environmental toxins. Your metabolic type—thyroid, adrenal, ovarian, or pituitary—impacts how your body processes food and stress. Histamine intolerance may be a hidde…
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Key Takeaways Narcissism exists on a spectrum—from benign to malicious—and all narcissists are abusive in some way. One of the most dangerous times in a narcissistic relationship is when you try to leave—safety planning is crucial. Narcissists often manipulate through subtle gaslighting and by shifting the blame. You are made to feel like you are t…
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Key Takeaways: Boys are often socialized to suppress feelings and disconnect from vulnerability—creating long-term emotional impacts. Fear of women is often rooted in deeper fears of being controlled, abandoned, or exposed emotionally. Men are typically taught only two “acceptable” emotions: anger and sexual desire—leading to miscommunication and e…
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Key takeaways: Scarcity mindset isn’t just about money—it shows up as fear, urgency, tension, and a lack of trust in yourself and life. Your body knows before your brain does—watch for breath-holding and tightness as early signs of scarcity thinking. FOMO can hijack your decision-making. Learn to listen for the “expansive yes” instead of defaulting…
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Key takeaways: Stuckness isn’t a character flaw—it’s a nervous system response designed to protect you. Asking “Why am I like this?” often reinforces paralysis. Ask instead: “What small yes can I offer myself right now?” Micro-yeses—tiny, manageable actions—help bypass overwhelm and gently re-engage the brain. Your brain’s safety system (fight, fli…
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Key takeaways: Why the recent study about ADHD and shorter lifespan isn't as scary as it seems The most common risk factors associated with unmanaged ADHD How early diagnosis and lifestyle strategies can mitigate long-term health risks Tips for supporting a loved one with ADHD in a compassionate, empowering way Why ADHD is often misunderstood—and w…
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Key Takeaways: Feeling drained, over-identifying with achievement, or struggling to disconnect from work. Symptoms like chronic fatigue, irritability, disconnection from joy, and lack of motivation can signal burnout rather than just stress. A balanced approach to achievement that aligns with your values and doesn’t deplete you. A powerful strategy…
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Key Takeaways: True intimacy starts when we acknowledge and accept both our polished public selves and the hidden parts we may be reluctant to face. Internal Family Systems (IFS) provides a framework to explore the various “parts” of our personality, including those that are exiled due to childhood experiences. While the initial excitement of a new…
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Key takeaways: The Drama Triangle highlights common toxic roles in relationships—Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer—that often stem from early life experiences and lead to conflict, blame, and resentment. Recognizing when you’re playing one of these roles is the first step in breaking free from unhealthy relationship cycles. Codependency often manifes…
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Key Takeaways: Healing begins by restoring your connection to yourself—emotionally, mentally, and physically. Movement, mindfulness, and reflection are key components. Monitoring your inner dialogue can create profound shifts. Transform self-criticism into supportive and kind thoughts to foster growth. While journaling helps process emotions, combi…
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Key Takeaways: Learn about the biological and neurological differences that define highly sensitive people, and how this evolutionary trait exists across species. Understand the overlap between high sensitivity, empathy, and introversion, and why highly sensitive individuals are often more likely to become empaths. How your surroundings, including …
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Key takeaways: Trauma is not about the event itself but the body’s reaction and its inability to recover, which can lock the nervous system into states of dis-ease. Effective leadership stems from fostering trust and safety, whether in parenting, coaching, or workplace settings. Small practices, like scanning your environment for safety cues, can r…
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Key takeaways: Music has a unique ability to mimic the effects of meditation, calming the mind, reducing cortisol, and lowering heart rate. Specific frequencies, like 432 Hz and 528 Hz, have measurable physiological benefits, including stress reduction and emotional regulation. Chanting, practiced across cultures, creates a connection to gratitude,…
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Key Takeaways: Karla and Chelsea share how they met online and created a supportive community for moms, fostering connection and collaboration despite never having met in person. They discuss the importance of giving yourself grace and celebrating small wins, reshaping the narrative around mom guilt to focus on doing your best each day. They explai…
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Key takeaways: Understanding insomnia beyond poor sleep: Insomnia isn’t just about sleeping less—it impacts every aspect of your life, from your mood to your ability to function. Why more time in bed doesn’t equal better sleep: Trying harder to sleep and spending excessive time in bed can disrupt your body clock and make sleep quality worse. The po…
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Key Takeaways: Resolutions should reflect your true self. Before committing to a goal, ask: Is this for me, or for someone else? The Queen’s Path reframes empowerment. Women’s journey isn’t about being a hero but claiming sovereignty over their lives. Motivation is fleeting; discipline sustains. Don’t rely on dopamine highs—focus on purposeful disc…
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Key Takeaways: Trauma is not just what happens to us but what we hold inside in the absence of empathetic support. Somatic Experiencing provides a gentle and embodied approach to healing, contrasting methods that retraumatize by forcing people to relive their experiences. The "wounded healer" archetype highlights the importance of therapists addres…
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Key takeaways: Highly sensitive children process overstimulation more intensely, making empathy and understanding essential in helping them navigate overwhelming situations. Building resilience in highly sensitive kids comes from connection, validation, and understanding—not from forcing them to "toughen up" or dismissing their struggles. Sensitivi…
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Key takeaways: Overthinking can be a major barrier for adults with ADHD, but understanding its patterns—like thought loops and spirals—can help break free from inaction. Creativity thrives when overthinking is managed, allowing ADHDers to leverage their unique strengths without being trapped by perfectionism. The PAM Method (Pause, Affirm and Allow…
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Key Takeaways Sensitivity in leadership is often masked due to societal expectations, especially for men, but embracing it can foster authentic connections and stronger teams. Forgiveness is not about excusing past behavior but about releasing yourself and others from the emotional weight of trauma. Sensitivity, when understood and harnessed, is a …
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Sensitivity is not a weakness but a unique strength that can be cultivated and celebrated. Nearly one-third of the population is considered highly sensitive, making this topic broadly relevant and impactful. The podcast will feature expert guests discussing practical tools for managing stress, overthinking, and emotional overwhelm. Listeners will g…
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Key Takeaways: Hashimoto's: A Complex Autoimmune Condition Symptoms May Appear Years Before Diagnosis Three Key Factors Behind Autoimmunity The Thyroid and Sensitivity Connection. Diet Plays a Major Role in Managing Hashimoto’s Environmental Toxins Impact Thyroid Health Hyperthyroidism vs. Hypothyroidism Effects The Power of Nutritional Support Tra…
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Takeaways Sugar cravings can stem from not eating enough throughout the day. Eating 'naked carbs' without protein can lead to increased sugar cravings. Dopamine release from sugar can create a cycle of wanting more. Gut health plays a crucial role in food cravings and overall well-being. Highly sensitive people may experience stronger cravings and …
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In this conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley and Michelle discuss the intricate relationship between acupuncture, fertility, and overall women's health. Michelle shares her personal journey from architecture to becoming an acupuncturist, emphasizing the importance of understanding the menstrual cycle and the holistic approach to health. They explore how…
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Drs. Amelia Kelley and Jeanne, talk to Malaka Mims about the intricate relationship between ethics and fairness, addressing common misconceptions about ethics, the importance of validation, and the role of personal values in navigating unfair situations. They discuss how past experiences shape perceptions of fairness and the necessity of empowermen…
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Dr. David Rosmarin joins Drs. Kelley and Jeanne to discuss the complexities of anxiety, the changes in the DSM regarding anxiety disorders, and the implications of overdiagnosis. The dialogue explores the distinction between healthy and clinical anxiety, the role of exposure therapy, and the importance of resilience and vulnerability in managing an…
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In this conversation, Joseph shares his journey of writing a book that encapsulates his personal struggles with anxiety and the insights he gained through various healing modalities. He emphasizes the importance of distinguishing between thoughts and thinking, advocating for a non-thinking approach to achieve peace and happiness. The discussion als…
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Drs. Amelia Kelley and Jeanne are joined by Melissa Holder. A conversation about a rare medical condition, sarcoidosis, turns into an informative episode on medical gaslighting. Melissa shares her personal experience with sarcoidosis, specifically how it affected her kidneys and her experiences with medical gaslighting. Key Takeaways Medical Gaslig…
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Andrea Ashley, host of the popular podcast The Adult Child, shares her personal story as an adult child of an alcoholic and dysfunctional family. She discusses the common characteristics of adult children, and highlights the importance of recognizing childhood trauma and its impact on adult relationships. Key Takeaways Andrea's Personal Story. Defi…
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We are excited to be joined by Jessica Baum, author of the immensely successful book, Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love. She is a Psychotherapist, Thought Leader, Relationship Coach, and Founder of the Self-full® Method and she is here to teach us all about attachment patterns. Key Takeaways: Understanding Attachment Pattern…
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We explore the concept of mental load in long-term relationships and how it can become imbalanced with our guest, empowered relationship psychologist and host of the Empowered Relationship Podcast, Dr Jessica Higgins. Key Takeaways Defining Mental Load. Defining Mental Load in Long-Term Relationships The Impact of Imbalanced Mental Load. The Role o…
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In this conversation, Dr. Jeanne and Dr. Amelia interview Ashley Broadwater, a freelance writer and highly sensitive person. They discuss Ashley's journey as a writer, her focus on mental health and relationships, and the challenges of writing about sensitive topics. Key Takeaways Background to creative writing and freelance journalism. Writing Abo…
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Dr. Robert Baric shares his journey into neurofeedback and the impact it can have on various conditions. Neurofeedback can be a complementary treatment to talk therapy and other interventions. Key Takeaways: Dr. Robert Baric's Journey into Neurofeedback. Understanding Neurofeedback and What to Expect in the Initial Session. Targeted Conditions: ADH…
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Dr. Jessica Stern discusses ADHD and its impact on relationships, particularly in couples where one or both partners have ADHD, or where one partner is a highly sensitive person. Dr. Jessica Stern is the host of Doctor Radio on Sirius XM, advisor for Wondermind and runs her own consultancy. Key Takeaways: ADHD in Relationships. Communication Challe…
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Marni Battista is an author, transformational life design specialist, and podcast host. She joins Drs. Jeanne Retief and Amelia Kelley today for a lively conversation on the concept of the 'should life' and how to move away from it. Key Moments: The Concept of the 'Should Life' Questioning Assumptions and Setting Boundaries. The Importance of Self-…
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Dr. Jeanne and Dr. Kelley discuss the impact of anxiety on the skin and the importance of skincare for mental health. They explore the benefits of using clean skincare products, such as Figgi Beauty, which is designed for sensitive skin. Key Takeaways How does anxiety impact the skin? What is the biological process of how anxiety affects the skin? …
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Cherie Burton, host of the Soul Rose podcast and international wellness champion, joins our podcast today as we shed light on suicide, suicide survival and prevention. Cherie, shares her personal experience of losing her sister to suicide and her journey of writing a book on the subject. Key Takeaways Normalizing discussions about suicide. Reducing…
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Bloom Post, Dr. Amelia Kelley's shamanic healer, joins the podcast today to talk about the concept of empaths and highly sensitive people, particularly in relation to narcissistic abuse. Key Takeaways The Creation of Empaths through Encounters with Narcissists Clearing and Transmuting Energy for Healthy Connections Prioritizing Self-Care and Sovere…
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Dr. Theresa DeLorenzo discusses the impact of menopause on the gut and the importance of diet during this phase. Drs. Jeanne & Kelley cover topics such as protein metabolism, the role of micronutrients, the benefits of soy and cruciferous vegetables, and the impact of diet on bone health with their guest. Key Takeaways Setting the Foundation: What …
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Jamie Copeland shares her journey of parenting a child with ADHD and offers strategies for parents. Key Takeaways Jamie's Journey of Parenting a Child with ADHD. Strategies for Parents of Children with ADHD. Supporting Children's Big Emotions. Alternative Approaches to Discipline. Reframing ADHD. Neurodivergence and ADHD. Medication and Managing Sy…
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